Like Leader, Like People -- Part II

I'm continuing my thoughts for nominating committees.  It gets us all thinking about leadership and church.  Maybe one day you'll be asked to either be on the nominating committee or to be an elder.  I hope this helps.

Fourth, many non-profit and for-profit boards are put together in the light of tasks that need to be done.  So an accountant is recruited for the financial task, a carpenter for facilities management, a public relations person for handling media, etceteras.  While Paul says that different spiritual gifts are like different body parts, this is brought up for the church as a whole rather than for a session.  In fact, notice that in Romans 12:8 there is the gift of leadership.  The session is built around the leadership task not around specific organizational tasks. 

Fifth, the gift of leadership prompts me to suggest this differentiation for nominating committees:  needed to qualify, required to play, must have to win.  Needed to qualify is that the committee should not consider unless this minimum is in the candidate’s life.  Required to play is that the committee should not consider this person seriously unless these additional qualities are present.  Must have to win refers to those qualities which would lead a nominating committee to make a candidate a finalist.  I would suggest that being a Christian or being nice does not qualify a person for consideration.  The person rather must be, in addition to being a Christian, growing spiritually and involved regularly in the life of the congregation and ministry to the world.  To play, the requirements would be that he or she is balanced, is leading in the church somewhere somehow, attends, gives, and has vision.  To win a place on the final slate he or she must have a spiritual gift for leading, be generous of spirit (this is a sign of grace and faith operating in a person’s life), and be confirmed by the Spirit to the group in prayer.

Staff members, their spouses, and the spouses of current elders are not eligible.  On occasion, someone from the nominating committee itself is suggested.  The issue here is whether the committee can, after having that person recluse him or herself from the discussion, still have that person re-enter and in the voting time be truly turned down.  The committee will have to decide about this should it come up.

Sixth, sometimes it comes across to me in organizations and in the PCUSA that we should be following a quota system.  We need a young person, a person from the women’s ministries, a person who is very denominational and another who is not, and so on.  I don’t subscribe to that as our reality.  What I see in scripture is a priority on the quality of spiritual maturity.  After that, I see in scripture also, that we are to seek balance in terms of gender, age, ethnicity, and other socio-economic factors.  I do not believe that spiritual maturity or the gift of spiritual leadership is limited by gender or age or race or economics.

Seventh, beware of people with low self-esteem, a need for prominence or power, and a stingy-ness of heart.  Not that these are not true of all of us from time to time but these conditions as prevailing in a person’s make-up leads to competitiveness, criticalness, and a “tightness” that are harmful to the well-being of the church.  And, pay attention to any inner concerns you may have regarding a candidate’s moral integrity.

Sometimes someone will nominate a person with the thought that this will help them become involved or mature spiritually.  They should already be at that point. 

Look around at who’s doing what.  Most of the time spiritually mature people are not un-involved wall flowers.  No, they are already showing love and doing stuff.  Sometimes that makes them look busy and we don’t want to burden them.  Well, a lot of time busy people know how to get stuff done.  And a lot of time what’s being asked of them is more strategic than what they are doing and they should trade the less strategic contribution for the more.  And let’s err on the side of asking them and letting them answer for them rather than us answer for them.

Like Leader, Like People -- Part I

Not every pastor will share the same information with an elder nominating committee but this is the information that I share.

First, this is a very important job.  It need not take a lot of time but that doesn’t minimize its importance.  The importance comes down to this:  leaders set the direction, pace, and tone for a church (where we go, how fast we go, and our manner as we go there).  If the person is inhospitable, for example, the congregation will eventually become inhospitable.  Hosea 4:9 says, “Like leaders, like people.”  The nominating committee is about bringing to the congregation a considered list of the best leaders for them to select for the life of the church. 

Second, there is in scripture a principle of delegated authority intended for progress in ministry.  Exodus 18:21-25 illustrates the principle.  Moses selects capable persons to assist him with the work of leading the Hebrew people.  Understand that this is not a board of directors over Moses but a team of assistants under him.  The chain of leadership influence is that Jesus sets the direction, pace, and tone for pastors, pastors for elders, elders for congregation, and congregation for community.

Third, the delegated authority is also instructional.  I Timothy 3:2 says elders are to be able to teach and the other qualities of life are those that are to be imitated.  Hebrews 13:7 and 17 say that the leaders should be respected and imitated.  A very simple way of looking at ministry is that it is the personal life of devotion brought to the level of public influence. 

A Special Call

I have a friend, Ron, who is pastor in Texas.  He has kind of a gravelly voice and I can still hear him telling me about a conversation in a new church that began in an unnerving way for him.  I think it was the way the man approached him and made eye contact.  But it ended up as a conversation of great blessing. 

The man said, “Pastor, do you know who I am?” 

Ron replied, “No.” 

“I am a man who will take a bullet for the pastor of this church.”

Now fast forward several years and I will give you a conversation as a pastor with a church member of my own.  Steve seemed very quiet to me.  Maybe he was shy or uncomfortable around church.  I couldn’t tell.  But the first words I remember hearing from Steve were, “I have a special call.  I am called to help pastors.  So whatever you need, please let me know.  Is there a way I can help you today?” 

I know that there are stories of pastors who are bulls-in-a-china-shop.  And they need love plus truth just like everyone else.  But there are also a lot of stories of pastors getting roundly criticized.  I, personally, remember an elder telling members, and doing so in front of me, "Never trust a pastor."  Well, you know how in a marriage you can sort of love yourself if you’ll love your partner deeply?  The same is true in a church.  I say, "If you love your church, love your pastor!" 

There is no pastor who’s perfect.  There’s no church member who’s perfect.  I like the small group curriculum where everyone begins by asking for forgiveness because in the course of doing real life together we’re going to offend one another.  Let’s admit the difficulties we all face in doing church together and move forward. 

Paul tells us to esteem and honor church leaders.  It is a tough job being out in front and viewed by many, many others who can be armchair quarterbacks.  So let’s watch gossip.  Let’s shovel on encouragement and prayers. 

Great Church Today

I just looked up there --  communion table set with the bread and cup, backpacks filled with tissues and pencils to be donated to kids all packed around the table's legs, the choir back from a summer break and three ladies set to lead in a special song, a butcher paper mural with the church's history ready to be drawn is furled across the front of the platform, and on it are tennis shoes filled with money to help buy school children new shoes.  Ohh, forgot to mention the 2 cents-a-meal offering for the poor and hungry.  And after we did church there in the sanctuary we were going to do church in the fellowship hall with pot-luck!  Kooky songs came with the dessert.  What a day!

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